Happy Sunday, friends! Unwinding a bit and enjoying the last few days of a much needed week off work.
Anyway, I've been getting several (good) comments about how good I look and if I've lost weight recently. Shocker, I haven't! I've been around the same two or three pounds since last September, when I hit goal. I think it might be toning and replacing muscle with fat. I've been lifting and doing core work like crazy as of late. Still, if it helps me look good, roll with it, right? ;-)
After all that babble, people keep asking me HOW I lost over 100 pounds.
Here's another shocker: I did it on my own.
Yup, y'all heard that right! No pre-packaged meals, no counting points, and NO SURGERY.
Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking down on those options at all. What works for one doesn't always work for another. I wasn't overweight enough to NEED the surgery, plus other options (Jenny Craig and Weight Watchers, for example) were too much money for me. So, I decided to just watch what I ate and worked out. That's all.
However, there are a few things that ANYONE trying to lose weight MUST do, regardless of what diet plan you use (in no particular order):
1) Watch what you eat. Common sense here, right? Right. I'm not gluten-free (no need to be), not vegan/vegetarian (or even close), and I don't rely on pre-packaged meals. I just eat good, healthy food in portions that work for me and enjoy a treat sometimes. Which leads me to...
2) Treat MEAL one day a week. Confession: I love pizza. I love fro-yo. Chocolate chip cookies and French fries will forever be in my life. However, the trick is to LIMIT how much you enjoy these items! I usually limit myself to one treat meal a week. It might be pizza, chicken fingers from Sonic (pretty much the only fast food I eat anymore), or even baby back ribs (like I had on my birthday). I keep it to one meal and move on. Same goes for sweets, even though I usually limit them to the weekends (one treat per day Friday-Sunday).
3) TRACK! I can't stress this enough. I do so much better when I track what I eat. I've actually been tracking for about 350 days straight. I'm a visual learner, so it helps to see what I eat and how I can adjust my patterns based on my goals. Oh, it also helps me own up to anything I mess up on (Lemon Chicken Orzo on a DAILY basis, for example). I use MyFitnessPal (hoopsfreak03 over there), but there are a ton of other options out there for you to choose from! If all else fails, there's always pen and paper!
4) Get moving! I'm not saying to get out there and run a marathon. Hell, even I haven't done that! Everyone has to start somewhere. Try something as simple as walking for 10-15 minutes at a time. I eventually worked myself up to Wii Fit and Biggest Loser DVD's. I even completed Jillian Michaels's 30 Day Shred! Eventually, I got a gym membership, fell in love with spinning, and completed several 5K's! Find what works for you and go from there!
5) Find support. I have a crazy, but loving family who supports me in this 100% (even if I don't think so sometimes), but I have so many friends and supporters online too. Point is, you need someone to cheer you when times are good, support you when they're not, and maybe even give you some tough love when you need it most but least expect it. There are so many out there who have similar struggles (I try not to say "same," as no two people are exactly alike), so there's always someone to listen! You can even message me or shoot me a tweet, and I'll help you too! ;-)
Last, but certainly not least...
6) Do it for YOU! So many times, I've seen people wanting a friend or family member to lose weight, but the person rebels against it. In fact, I was that person myself. This is one of those things where you have to want it for yourself; not to please your family, not for an event, and not even to be accepted by society. If you do it for all those things, are you going to stick with it after everything comes and goes? NOPE! I know from experience that I didn't really want it until just over five years ago. At that point, I was just sick of being overweight and wanted to be healthy and happy in my own skin. Sure enough, I am today!
Well, there you go! That's how I lost over 100 pounds and kept it off for ten months, but planning on keeping it up forever!
Do you have any tips for losing or maintaining weight?
I think the most important thing in that list, is do it for you. You just need to have that a-ha! moment. Really and truly.
ReplyDeleteThanks for posting!!! :)
Thank you for reading! I don't quite remember the EXACT moment for me, but I just had enough of being overweight. Still, it was what I wanted and I wasn't doing it for anyone else!
DeleteFantastic post! We have very similar philosophies on weight loss! Do it for you! Slow and steady, don't eliminate your favorites, work to limit them. Nobody wants to be skinny at the expense of NEVER eating pizza again! Just found your blog and was so impressed with your story! Thank you so much for sharing!
ReplyDeleteThank you for finding me and reading! It took some work, but I found the best balance for me! Oh, and I did eliminate a fav of mine (mac and cheese from my job), but it was because there's other things I like MORE that weren't worth giving up for mac and cheese.
DeleteGreat post! And congrats to you. I guess the only tip I would add is if you feel like you plateaued, then change it up and try something new.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm surprised that I didn't think of that one myself, despite my experience in that area!
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